I changed all my bank information and transferred my retirement payments to a new card. My daughter and son-in-law were already sitting at home waiting, their faces flushed red with anger. “Do you know what you just did? He almost fainted at that ATM,” my daughter said through clenched teeth. I smiled slightly and answered with just one sentence. In that moment, everything changed. It all happened on a quiet afternoon in our small American suburb, the kind with flagpoles in the front yard and ma